Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
PDA is a behavioral pattern where people—often autistic children—intensely avoid or resist demands and expectations, sometimes with panic, meltdowns, or clever excuses. It’s not defiance but overwhelming anxiety: even simple requests like “brush your teeth” feel like threats, triggering extreme stress. Seen as an autism profile, PDA is debated—some view it as a distinct type, others as a response to unhelpful environments.
The book Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Autism from Lambertus Verlag (2025) breaks down this challenging behavior in plain language for parents, teachers, and anyone supporting autistic kids. Editors Simone Hatami and Prof. Georg Theunissen explain: PDA isn’t “naughty” behavior but a self-protection against overload—focus on low-pressure strategies like offering choices and building trust, with hands-on tips for home, daycare, or school. Note: Unfortunately, it’s only available in German right now.
Hajo Seng’s Special Role
The foreword honors Hajo Seng (1963–2025), an autistic pioneer and friend of the editors. As an activist, researcher, and co-founder of self-advocacy groups, he championed insider views on autism—like his “hoodie as a hug” idea for sensory calm (also the book cover motif). His legacy at Dalslands Studio in Sweden reinforces the message: Embrace neurodiversity, not labels.
A compassionate guide that listens to fears without pathologizing—perfect for beginners seeking real help.